Patient Figs

Patient Figs
How long do you wait for them?

My bf & I live 2gether & his kids live in NC. Recently his oldest daughter 15, was sexually assulted by her step father & has tried 2 kill herself several times. So he has decided to move back 2 NC 4 the time being & c how things go. He & his daughter haven’t had a real relationship. At first she wanted him there & now she won’t talk to him at all. Not 2 mention he & his family really aren’t close & he will be staying with his bro & ex gf & his other 2 daughters. He doesn’t want 2 go but knows he has 2 for his daughter. He needs 2 make sure she is OK. He ultimately wants 2 come back to WI but isn’t sure what is going to happen when he gets there. We luv ea other so much & i am trying 2 be patient as his kids come 1st. He wants me 2 wait until Aug so he can see how things go & try to fig. this out. No matter what he does it isn’t enuf 4 his family either & they dictate what he needs 2 do w/ his life. I feel bad for him & don’t know what 2 do.

People remember those that support and comfort them in their time of need. His time of need is right now. I think you support him in his decisions and what he needs to do right now to get things straightened out because that’s what love does…it bares all things and believes all things and hopes all things. It doesn’t mean that love is foolish and ignorant but it’s strong and willing to sacrifice time and happiness of the moment to bring comfort to those it loves and cares for.

It is the greatest gift one can give of themselves—the selfless act of being there and supporting someone. It costs nothing but time and is very priceless. Tough times bring about the truth in a person’s personality.

See it through.

Hope it works out for you and him.

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